You can stand out online actually ❀️🎢


What's up Reader

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I recently saw this post from social media coach Donavan Barrett

(One of the few social media coaches I actually trust! 🫒)

He's talking about 3 different ways to stand out online, and why one particular way is best for most people.

(Spoiler - that one particular way is being unique)

I see so many of us hold ourselves back due to concerns about "overcrowding"

Especially artists making a popular genre. Or those who wanna sell common items like sample packs or beats...

I can absolutely see where this concern comes from.

But in the grand scheme of things, I don't think "overcrowding" is the root issue.

We're mainly facing the fact that at some point, we'll post something and nobody will listen.

And also face the scariness of "taking up space" online πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

But even if you think your work has absolutely no chance of standing out, I have NO DOUBT that you can use *your* uniqueness to your advantage.

Let's get on and look at these 3 approaches.

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1. The Excellence Route πŸ†

Being excellent means producing music or sharing advice that sets a new standard.

Developing your skills so well that you become the go-to person in your niche.

Like if you give the kind of advice that completely blows people's minds 🀯

Or if you're some kind of musical prodigy.

This is um... not possible for most of us ☹️

There are already so many elite-level creatives out there. Trying to out-do them in order to stand out is not feasible.

If you're relying on "becoming the best", it might be time to rethink your approach.

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2. The Magnetic Route 🧲

Some people have a naturally magnetic presentation that draws others in.

Their charisma is enough to make people obsess over them. No matter what they post.

But here’s the thing: a lot of us struggle to bring out our personality in that way.

It's a LOT of work to discover your core values and characteristics, and then translate those into a captivating online presence.

These magnetic people aren't necessarily loud and extroverted. Anyone can learn to speak/type in a captivating way!

However - I feel if you try to *chase* being magnetic, you'll end up feeling gross and inauthentic...

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3. The Unique Route ❄️

This is the magic one - because you don't have to chase it.

Being unique means bringing a fresh perspective to your music and content.

It could be that your work is unique, or YOU are unique. Or both!

I'm assuming that if you're here, a lot of what you see online doesn't quite resonate with you. Now's your chance to make something that does!

Everyone's got something that annoys them in the music niche. Share your opinions!

Everyone has unique experiences from their life circumstances.

Everyone has a unique assortment of things that inspire them.

Everyone has unique tastes within their creativity.

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TL;DR you don't have to chase something or become someone else in order to stand out. Use what you already got and talk about ittttttt πŸ˜‰

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Much love 🫢🏻

Damon Siseman

🌱 Stuff I'm Doing Recently 🌱

6th November 2024

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What I'm doing...

I am so burned out from General Life Stuff. ough. No capacity to do anything new or go do ~networking~ so I'm just quietly doing freelance work πŸ’»

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What I'm thinking about...

Now don't be alarmed but I was wondering about rebranding and just going by my name online πŸ€”

Nothing would change really, but I'd like to escape the invisible pressure to ✨fit the niche✨

And to welcome wider creative disciplines into this community (instead of just musicians) 😊

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What I'm recommending...

That you check out Claire Paniccia's workshop - "Content Repurposing (without burning TF out)*". She talks about loads of ways to make new content from your old content (instead of pulling it out of thin air all the time!)

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Find me on: Instagram | TikTok​

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More stuff from me!

  • ​Get Your First Client Course ($97) - Want to offer a music-related service and find clients without being creepy/annoying? I got you 😎
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Damon Siseman

I help creative entrepreneurs build authentic, fulfilling businesses by forming self-connection and self-trust. Through compassion and creativity, I encourage you to design systems tailored to your uniqueness, avoiding burnout and embracing independence. I also send really good newsletters - maybe you want to read them?

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